Can I have feminism back please?

-Hello, how can I help you?
-Hi, I would like to exchange this feminism, it has lost its meaning...

I used to be proud to call myself a feminist. Today I have to explain and defend myself. Mention feminism and many will automatically think you are a man-hating lesbian who ignore shaving. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against the HBT-society, I love the gays. But give me back feminism! When did feminism stop meaning equal opportunities and equal rights? It's about equality. I do not hate men, in fact I'm inlove with a very manly man, I simply believe that women and men have equal rights and equal obligations in our society.